Section: Children and Kids
The Child Role
Not only do Father and Mother have an important role to exercise, but the Child does too. A role projected onto the age of maturity, in fluid equilibrium between obedience and independence, where obedience goes decreasing progressively while independence will increase up and become (one day) prevalent.
If everything goes well, your baby should go through childhood and adolescence, reaching maturity, but today it's easy to see how the lack of adults role understanding (awareness) is bringing children to lose their role too.
So, Roles are the Humus. Without this humus there is no individual, no sexuality, no harmony, no participation, no hope, no evolution and no life.
Through this site we want to help parents in their educational work, but also we want to help children understand the great importance of their role and help them reach full age and maturity.
" A single parent's child has only one opinion (mental plagiarism, cloning); a child with both parents normally discussing things and exchanging ideas will listen to at least two opinions. It takes at least two opinions for the child to feel the need to form one of his own. " -- Educational Ideas, Fabio Barzagli (ed. 2008)
The Father absence
Fatherhood is absent in Western countries nowadays.
The man, who is basically far and limited to playing the role of economical provider,
cannot play his natural educational and social role within the family.
In Italy and Europe over 40% of younger people live without biological father in the home.
This makes children, our future citizens, mothers and fathers of tomorrow,
more alone and unable to face the great and complex challenge of life.
All researches and statistics (but also common sense helps) allow us to understand
why most suicides, homicides, crimes, violence, bullying, mental diseases, use of drugs and alcohol,
school and marriage failures, etc., are due to the father's absence.
It is shown that a child with no parents or with only one parent is 5-10 times more prone to such problems.
Today's society reflects a society where the Father is absent, a moral and mental absence, which is often also physical.
So We need to revalue Fatherhood and the culture of the Father, in the single and in the community. Fatherhood is an institution: governments must defend it and bring it everywhere.
a touching audio-story explaining the importance of the father
inner father, inner child, a tribe inside ourselves..
the inner revolution to become altruist.. and a better version of yourself
" Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value. " -- Albert Einstein
In-depth Analysis
the protection of childhood and adolescence
a study on the complex functioning of human systems
touching video.. fatherhood is the same everywhere, doesn't matter your race
barack obama speech, Fathers Day 2008
my father didn't tell me how to live.. he lived, and let me watch him do it (Clarence Budington)
" Some children grow up in invisible prisons, they love those who torture them, they tolerate what should not be tolerated, develop illnesses, commit suicide, start families creating prisons for the children they will have, patterns passed down from generation to generation if no one breaks them. " -- on Toxic Families
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