Father and Son Meet Themselves Grow-Up
Father and Son meet themselves Grown-Up
This video does not deal with the consequences of the father absence, but tries to investigate its grounds.
A Father and his Child are often apart (separated) and even when not "physically apart", due to a divorce or to other reasons, they are separated in their look, in their relationship. Their Mental Distance is preamble to a "final" physical separation.
Many fathers don't make or complete the education of their children because they had not been educated and grown up emotionally, ethically, rationally by their own fathers too.
The father absence has historical ROOTS in the last century,
a century comprising wars and degrading working conditions,
places very far from home and family, places where millions of men and fathers died,
100 million during the two world wars, and even more were shocked, wounded,
made unable to continue their lives and play their social role with dignity.
A long non-chain consisting of missing links.
Such chain has to be rebuilt today
by the alive people, because in such "connection"
there are roots, past, ancestors, important seeds for future life and happiness.
What to do? - To "look at" the own father with new and adult eyes. If he died, it's however possible to understand him through imagination, memories and the people left by him in the world. Many things will be discovered, such as (very often) that our father loved us.. but he didn't know how to do it, and he closed himself off (his soul), losing the opportunity and the joy of knowing his children.
A happy end is not guaranteed, but The Life of a son "humbly meeting" the father changes: rage cool off, an healthy INNER FATHER is built; the inner father will be a guide in order to become better fathers, like our father would have wanted, although he didn't tell us.
Listen to their dialogue..
Male Initiation: To Become Men
Society doesn't shape Men anymore, doesn't like Men anymore. Even if you become a Man it will be hard to integrate.
How to survive? How to feed yourself?
Man is the creator of the future; while others grope in the dark He enlightens the way alone.
The conversion of solitude to personal development will be your keystone.
Go to Nature, look for examples inside books and people.
Your "masculine energy" is the most important thing you own; do not waste it toward useless people.
When one has not had a good father, one must create one, Nietzsche said,
a Wiseman "initiating" you to the strength and direction you have inside.
The Energy is inside your subconscious, to bring it to light you need to do a "transition"
creating a Belief inside you:
in Ancestors, in Fathers, in the Male Culture shaping the world since immemorial past.
You'll become calm, forward-looking, an example for boys who want to become men.
Your words will be stone and sword, your thoughts galaxies of knowledge,
emptiness will become fullness, weakness will become power.
Male history is an eternal history.. We can be part of it, go through Time, be part of the noble destiny, or karma, as genuine Men and Fathers.
MENU: / WHO'S WHO / BEING FATHER / KIDS / DIVORCE / NOWDAYS / MAN, WOMAN / SPOT / CHANGES / LINK
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