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Talking about Naivety

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heart is something about humble people .. Talking about Naivety When I was a child it was often associated with purity, genuinity, quality, beauty . Today it's seen as a bug. A distortion. An anomaly.. In the Society of Marketing, one against the other, ignorant people who call themselves intelligent in a miserable attemp at self-referentiality, there is no more room for naivety. The Law is no longer understood and interpreted, but applied like a "two times table" by hordes of incompetents, it does not allow for naivety either. So hurray!.. hooray for the woman who trusts a man and is betrayed, hooray for the man who starts a family only to find himself divorced, out of the house and without children, hooray for the student who tells the teacher that he didn't study yesterday because there was the Italian national team match, hooray for those who still eat jam with their fingers. Naivety is not a lifestyle, but a part of ourselves that so...

The Unbridgeable Gap

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when family and children become consumer goods The Unbridgeable Gap Without love , we could have 10 more children, delightful ones. We could have a house in the mountains and one by the sea. A nice bank account for the future, and nice cars. But in the evening .. after putting the little ones to bed, turning off the laptop, putting away the necklace, glancing at the SUVs in the garage, we'll sit on the sofa and watch a movie on the DVD player with Home Theater.. ..at that moment, you will have a few aches and pains, and I will feel a little unwell, because in the rush of it all .. we will have forgotten to take care of ourselves and our souls, which, unlike our bodies, feed only on love, and affection . GO BACK MENU: / WHO'S WHO / BEING FATHER / KIDS / DIVORCE / NOWDAYS / MAN, WOMAN / SPOT / CHANGES / LINK ...

Exiting The Matrix

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distinguish the dream from the real world Out of The Matrix I see nowadays many Men and Women who are lonely, sad, and angry. Men and women who feel insecure, who don't recognize themselves in this world, thinking a child needs a father and a mother to grow up healthy, thinking that masculinity is beautiful, and femininity is beautiful . But you feel wrong. You're afraid to say certain things.. maybe they accuse you of being unfair, anachronistic, out of step with the times. And you feel more and more wrong. You are torn between what you feel in your heart (less and less as the years go by...) and what your mind, flooded with propaganda, dictates to you. You didn't have such strong parents who gave you certainties, the strength to live in the world, and defend your idea because you believe it is the right one. Your parents told you lies, often unconsciously, you have been taught to wear masks and ignore your true nature as men and wo...

Misanthropy

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easy to be good when everyone is, try to be today Misanthropy I see a lot of anger and hatred around, misanthropy. men are disgusting, animals are better , etc., etc., .. I wonder where we want to go with this attitude. Even if it were a difficult time for humanity (and I think it is) for the presence of evil, psychopathologies, immorality, violence, do you think it's useful to shoot your own species? Or maybe it's better to roll up your sleeves, work to improve this society, starting with ourselves: respect, ethics, sincerity, cooperation . We can decide whether to contribute to a better world, be a role model for others, or spend our time protesting, shouting, and hating. If only people would look in the mirror and, with a bit of awareness, realize how much misanthropy there is out there.. There's no point in living like this.. it's normal for depression spreads everywhere.. how is it possible to live happily if we hate our own species , humanity and ...

The Vicious Circle

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the need of culture, of ethical cooperative men and women The Vicious Circle The man fights the man kills and destroy the man is shocked by war the man cries for dead people and misery the man declares peace the man writes memories and constitutions the man loves the men rebuild cities the man flourishes and prospers. Time passes the man forgets the society regresses souls eclipse. The man fights the man kills and destroy the man .......... Every civilization has its own season like a flower born, blooms and shines then it fades out, decays and dies. Will man ever be able to break the Vicious Cycle? - - FROM THE BOOK POEMS AND THOUGHS, 2021 GO BACK MENU: / WHO'S WHO / BEING FATHER / KIDS / DIVORCE / NOWDAYS / MAN, WOMAN / SPOT / CHANGES / LINK year 2008: the first international hub for fatherhood / american version / for the original italian versio...

The Structure of Human Brain, Complexity

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the need of culture, of ethical cooperative men and women Complexity Complexity is a term created by humans . This term means everything that cannot be fully defined by a human comprehensible rule or a group of human-comprehensible rules. So the human brain is complex, DNA is complex, social relationships are complex, the nature of Earth is complex, universe is complex. Complexity probably won’t ever be fully captured by humans but of course it can be observed, perceived, absorbed, elaborated, familiarized, handled, shared, talked about, and why not.. loved because it is part of our extraordinary adventure and world around called life.. and of course.. we need to live. In a certain way Complexity is the gap between actual human intellectual knowledge and full universe environment knowledge. Complexity is the extreme knowledge frontier of a single and specific science (mathematics, physics, economy, psychology, etc) and the world of links and infinite relationships betw...

A Simpler World

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you can't choose among infinite things .. A Simpler World When I was born (1974) the world was still quite simple , you were given three or four goals and you could choose: you could make the most obvious choice, the most atypical one... or even the most rebellious one. Today, paradoxically, there are infinite possibilities of choice, no one tells you anything anymore, or limits you, or reduces the range of choices, and the funny thing is that if you can choose between three or four things... you can't among infinite things . The final scene of "The Legend of 1900" comes to mind, explaining these things poetically. Here is the dialogue between the pianist, who decides to spend his whole life on the ship and never disembark, and his friend Max: " Take a piano Max. The keys begin, the keys end. You know there are eighty-eight of them, nobody can tell you any different. They are not infinite. You are infinite. And on these ke...

Find Your Fire Again

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every man has the fire of history within him (and it burns eternally) Find Your Fire Again I have come a long way in this journey. But I really don't know where I went . Then, one day I stopped to think, and I realized that there was no point in walking in the dark. I turned toward the fire. I saw the enormous distance between me and him. I didn't think I'd gone this far.. Suddenly I understood everything. The Return Has Begun. Solid and decisive steps toward the center.. where everything has always lived . We are the fire. Every man has the fire of History within him. - - FROM THE BOOK CONSAPEVOLEZZA (AWARENESS), 2025 GO BACK MENU: / WHO'S WHO / BEING FATHER / KIDS / DIVORCE / NOWDAYS / MAN, WOMAN / SPOT / CHANGES / LINK year 2008: the first international hub for fatherhood / american version / for the original italian version go to www.Pat...

Awareness, a Self-Help Book

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everything is in balance with everything, humans can only see a part of that Awareness, a Self-Help book / 2025 Consapevolezza (Awareness) is the forth italian language book by the artist philosopher Fabio Barzagli. It wants to help you find your deep genuine identity , exiting from stress and depression, and find your place in Society. Synopsis of the Book How does the human psyche work? What is the unconscious? Why are we angry, anxious, depressed? What is Life? We're moved by archetypes , subconsciously learned during childhood. We can be free to become what we want only by identifying these ancestral schemes . This book will approach these topics using a practical and multidisciplinary method: philosophy, neuroscience, psychology, metaphors and poem, with the aim to understand what Complexity is . In a coming future We will probably become wise enough to wander across the Universe together with Life, as an intelligent part of It. To become Aw...