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this fairy tale is a metaphor that explains how important a child's relationship with their father is to achieving a happy life, 2007 (start music below before reading) A Tale for Isabel Bob is a 47-year-old man and father to a beautiful 7-years-old girl, Isabel. Every night when he puts her to bed, he tells her a different story, gives her a kiss, and then it's off to sleep! Isabel : "What are you going to tell me tonight, dad?" Bob : "Get under the covers.. ok, tonight I'll tell you the story of Bill." Isabel : "Who is Bill?" Bob calmly began to tell the story.. Bill is a child born in 2000 in a remote village in the Tuscan countryside. As soon as he was born, his mother took him to a big city far away. Bill, who weighed 4.5 kg at birth, was blond, a precocious runner, and soon became very intelligent. He grew up in the big city alone with his mother. He grew more and more every day, and as he grew, he ha...

solving the puzzle of your mind, december 2008 (start music below before reading) The Inner Father People who, like me, have never had a present father, a void was created inside from an early age ; an ever-growing void into which everything and anything entered. A few years ago, I became aware of this void and how I had filled it.. I began to clean it, to clean up that inner place. Then I began to fill it again with something called the inner father: images, faces, sounds, emotions, slowly, piece by piece, as one does with collages, I began to reconstruct an image inside me that was of a father . If today I know how to be a father, it is thanks to this image of the inner father. Discovering Yourself Purpose? Understanding yourself, human nature , facing the future. Feelings are part of us as matter is: anger, joy, pain, tenderness are emotions in our lives, ignoring those emotions is not healthy. Let's for instance take tenderness.. it...

depression is an opportunity .. The Unconscious Message: It's time to Listen to Yourself with Honesty Look at anxiety, sadness, obsessions, not as problems but as solutions: our body is communicating in a language we don't know. Learn that LANGUAGE. It's not made of words and rationality, but emotions, images, instincts, spirituality. Neurosciences tell us 90% of brain is about unconscious and instinctual processes. We need to go back to roots, childhood, to a wrong and dysfunctional imprinting , so We didn't develop a solid, harmonious, healthy identity. You have to dedicate time, every day, listening to yourself, in silence, connecting to your deep mind . Those intrusive and worrying thoughts will reveal to you a HEALING message. One european on Two is suffering of Stress Depression (or Existential Crisis) is a phenomenon ignored by Media. While decades ago It was a rare pathology.. since 2020 It's the first cause of human disabilit...

the protection of childhood and adolescence, december 2009 Children Pushed to Excess Albert Einstein once said: " The school should always have as its aim that the young person leave it as a harmonious personality, not as a specialist. Otherwise (with his specialized knowledge) he more closely resembles a well-trained dog than a harmoniously developed person. The demands of life are much too manifold (multiform, multifaceted) [..] the development of general ability for independent thinking and judgment should always be placed foremost, not the acquisition of special knowledge." So if the School has to be that way (harmonious, versatile) the Family should be more and more strong about that! Formation of a healthy identity and balanced human development should always be the first parent's goal; the purpose of a father and mother is to educate children and to give them consciousness of themselves and the world around them. But quite often parents (...