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5 august 2023, from pensalibero.it 50 years later, what you didn't know about divorce The illusion that divorce frees you from your family... is just an illusion. Divorce does not dissolve your family, it only dissolves the couple; family responsibilities towards children remain unchanged. Those who believed that divorce was a celebration and an escape from obligations will be disappointed. New laws on shared custody provides increasingly costly penalties, and substantial compensation to the child if a parent fails to fulfill his/her obligations. But it is even more important to know that separated children have special needs , affection, guidance, as it will take months or years for them to get used to the new family arrangement. Being separated parents does not make you parents with fewer responsibilities and duties . Remember Constitutions and International Law and the duty to educate and raise children, always and in any case. As a child of separated parent...

let's free separated children from their cages Psychological Violence and Underages in Divorce The most frequent violence that underage children receive before, during and after a divorce is psychological violence . It means that one parent (or both) "absue" of his/her position or higher mental force for various purposes: revenge against the other parent, to denigrate the parent with less "child time", to get material benefits (house, money, custody), wishes to control of the children, other motives and/or pathologies. The abuse may be done in a premeditated and strategic way or in an uncontrolled and impulsive one. That violence has a high destructive potential inside the underage that receive it. A fundamental difference between physical and psychological violence is that the first one is easily observable (who, when) while the second one you can receive without realizing it with stronger and chronic damage. Receiving this violence in...

a message to all separted fathers (start music below before reading) A New Man There was a time I believe I was rich because of my beauty house my great car my generous salary my fascinating wife I remember i asked myself: am I happy? but didn't find an answer.. Then I lost everything.. ..but when I thought I lost everything, I found everything instead. I found love, a woman loving me even if I wasn't rich and powerful; I found freinds.. they accepted me even if they didn't know me; I found myself.. because I had forgotten my inside to follow the outside . Today I've learned We live for ourselves and for others , if someone asks you to choose between.. He doesn't love you.. .. dedicated to my friends .. to people I don't know and to my neighbor .. dedicated even to those they don't love me because if you hate a person you are on the way of hating everyone .. to people who lost everything.. it's probably h...

denied fathers and children, wars, workplace deaths, divorces (start music below before reading) One Step Ahead Towards Civilization In a future that I hope will not be so remote, these years will be remembered for one of the greatest crimes humankind has ever committed: depriving children of their own fathers. Human beings born from one another, full of love and life , are continuously separated and oppressed. Taking a child away from the care of someone who has fathered, raised and loved him/her is just like chopping his arm or leg off. The resulting pain is excruciatingly unimaginable. A father deprived of his own children lives every day by trying to remove his pain , which will soon cause serious health problems. His unconscious will be filled with shadows, sorrows and all sorts of ill-feelings. You cannot forget him/her, because they are alive, you cannot forget about what you love, because it is also what keeps you alive and gives you the joy,...